Many men resonate with many feminine things regarding appearance or interests. Heterosexual men especially cannot face society without being unfairly assumed to be gay. The issue with this is the fact gender is taken so seriously in our society when really there is no true category that people can be placed in. As humans we still try and it causes many people to be ashamed of their interests as individuals and specifically in the case of men who appear to be not "good enough" at being a man.